EMDR THERAPY SAN FRANCISCO
Integrative, grounded, and science-backed trauma therapy
Trauma Therapy for San Francisco Professionals and Young Adults
Living in San Francisco, your brain is processing more than you think. On top of work demands, it’s quietly processing earthquakes, tech-industry upheaval, the astronomic cost of living, and the homelessness crisis.
On top of your personal trauma, these things all leave a mark. With our San Francisco EMDR therapy approach, we translate trauma into something you can leave behind. Because you don’t just deserve relief; you deserve to thrive.
Our San Francisco EMDR Therapists:
Serving San Francisco, Marin, Oakland, and Berkeley
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Alexis Harney, LMFT
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Daniella Mohazab, AMFT
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Bay Area native
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Laurel van der Toorn, LMFT
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Bay Area native
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Tatevik Sarkisian, AMFT
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EMDR Therapy for San Francisco High Achievers
San Francisco can be an exciting place to live and work, but it is also high-pressure. Many clients come to therapy feeling exhausted, disconnected, or constantly on edge. Common stressors we see include:
Tech and startup culture pressure
Long hours and productivity expectations
Cost of living stress
Identity and relationship transitions in young adulthood
LGBTQ+ identity stress and minority stress
Medical, legal, and academic career burnout
EMDR therapy can help reduce the emotional and physical impact of these stressors so you can feel more regulated, present, and connected.
What EMDR Therapy Looks Like in Our San Francisco Practice
EMDR therapy is a structured trauma treatment, but the most important part is preparation. We spend time helping you feel stable, grounded, and resourced before processing distressing memories. This may include:
Nervous system regulation skills
Grounding and resourcing exercises
Understanding triggers and stress patterns
Building emotional safety and trust in therapy
When you feel ready, EMDR sessions help your brain reprocess painful experiences so they no longer feel overwhelming. You do not have to relive trauma in detail, and you remain in control throughout the process.
What We Treat With EMDR Therapy
Our San Francisco EMDR therapists work with:
Childhood trauma and attachment wounds
PTSD and complex trauma
Anxiety and panic attacks
Burnout and chronic stress
Grief and loss
Relationship trauma
Medical trauma and first responder stress
Phobias such as fear of flying
Performance enhancement
We also support clients who have tried therapy before and felt it moved too fast or did not feel grounding enough.
Our clinical director and Bay Area native, Laurel, recently joined Recovery.com’s video podcast series to discuss trauma, the healing process, EMDR therapy, and related topics. It’s a great deep dive into how meaningful change happens.
Experience Safety in Your Body Again with San Francisco EMDR Therapy
San Francisco EMDR therapist Alexis Harney, LMFT explains how EMDR therapy can heal trauma.
Healing trauma transforms your life: relationships, health, productivity, and overall sense of balance and calm.
San Francisco EMDR Therapy Healing Stories
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Liam: Overcoming Fear Of Turbulence
Liam* had always loved exploring new places, but in his 40s, flying began to fill him with dread. What used to be an easy adventure became something he’d obsess over for weeks. He’d check turbulence reports, watch flight trackers, and lie awake imagining the worst. If travel couldn’t be avoided, he’d feel trapped in a spiral of anxiety leading up to takeoff.
Working with an EMDR therapist in San Francisco, Liam began to explore where this fear came from. During one session, he made an important connection known as a floatback. His mind connected the panic he felt on a turbulent flight years earlier to an even earlier memory: the 1989 San Francisco earthquake. At age 10, he’d been home alone when the shaking began, gripping a table while the room rattled around him. The feeling of helplessness during turbulence mirrored that same bodily terror from decades earlier.
Through EMDR, Liam was able to process the quake until it no longer carried the same emotional charge. He described feeling lighter, though physically tired, after each session.
A few weeks later, he booked a short flight to visit friends in Southern California. For the first time in years, he didn’t spend the days before in panic. The flight was smooth, and even when the plane hit a few bumps, his body stayed calm. Now, Liam travels regularly again, grateful to feel safe both on the ground and in the air.
* Names and identifying information have been changed.
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Jasmine: Healing The Long Term Effects of Witnessing Domestic Violence
Jasmine* grew up in a home marked by constant tension. Arguments between her parents could escalate quickly, and she often felt unseen—like no one was paying attention to how scared or alone she felt.
As an adult, Jasmine built a life that looked steady and successful from the outside: a fulfilling career, close friendships, and plenty of interests. Yet beneath the surface, she lived with a quiet sense of fear. Intimate relationships were the hardest. Every time she started to feel close to someone, her body would tense, and she’d find herself pulling away or shutting down completely. Even when she wanted connection, her nervous system told her it wasn’t safe.
After several months of EMDR therapy in San Francisco, Jasmine began processing the memories that had shaped her sense of safety and trust. Gradually, her body felt calmer, and the walls she once put up began to soften. She started to recognize when fear was an old response rather than a reflection of the present moment.
Today, Jasmine is in a caring, stable partnership. The panic that once surfaced so easily has quieted, replaced with a steady confidence in her ability to stay present and connected.
* Names and identifying information have been changed.
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Kelly: Healing Medical Trauma
Kelly* experienced a sudden medical emergency that left her rushed to the ER at UCSF Medical Center, disoriented and in severe pain. Hours passed as doctors ran test after test, none offering clear answers. Though she eventually stabilized enough to go home, the experience left her uneasy in hospitals, distrustful of medical staff, and triggered by anything that reminded her of that night.
After several months of EMDR therapy in San Francisco, Kelly began noticing subtle but meaningful changes. She no longer felt a spike of anxiety when passing the hospital on her commute or seeing ambulances downtown. The true turning point came when she scheduled her annual checkup without hesitation and realized she wasn’t panicking.
While medical visits still aren’t her favorite, they no longer bring flashbacks or fear. Today, she’s able to care for her health with confidence and calm.
* Names and identifying information have been changed.
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Rachel: Healing Sexual Trauma
Rachel* had a comfortable, joyful connection to her body and sexuality, until a traumatic sexual assault changed everything. In the aftermath, she struggled with symptoms of PTSD: sleepless nights, intrusive memories, panic, and a constant feeling of disconnection from herself. She missed the parts of her life that once felt natural: intimacy, confidence, ease.
Cautious but hopeful, Rachel began EMDR therapy in San Francisco, working virtually from the safety of her own home. Guided by her San Francisco EMDR therapist, she began to process the layers of fear, shame, and grief she had carried for years. Each session helped her reclaim more of the sense of control and safety that trauma had stolen.
The process wasn’t quick or easy. There were tears, pauses, and moments of doubt. But slowly, the nightmares faded, the flashbacks softened, and her nervous system began to rest. More importantly, she started reconnecting with her body and her sense of worth.
Today, Rachel still remembers what happened, but it no longer defines her. She experiences intimacy with presence instead of panic, and self-compassion instead of shame. With the right support from a San Francisco EMDR therapist, healing is not only possible, but transformative.
* Names and identifying information have been changed.
EMDR for Teens in San Francisco
The teen years bring unique challenges: academic pressure, shifting friendships, family dynamics, and identity changes. Teens are still developing the emotional tools to handle them. EMDR therapy offers an effective, age-appropriate way to help teens process stress, trauma, and anxiety before those experiences become long-term patterns.
Because the adolescent brain is highly adaptable, San Francisco teens often experience faster progress with EMDR therapy than adults. Our San Francisco EMDR therapists use a resourcing-focused approach that helps teens build confidence, manage social stressors, and strengthen coping skills for life.
By combining emotional safety with evidence-based methods, EMDR therapy in San Francisco empowers teens to process big emotions, regulate their nervous systems, and develop resilience that lasts well into adulthood.
Quiz: Could You Benefit From Working With an EMDR Therapist in San Francisco?
Our Trauma-Informed and Holistic Therapy Services in California & Florida
Explore what’s possible through online therapy with Laurel Therapy Collective. Our compassionate team of licensed therapists offers personalized support for a wide range of mental health needs, from anxiety and burnout to trauma and relationship concerns. We provide EMDR therapy, trauma therapy, therapy for lawyers, Enneagram therapy, and LGBTQ+ affirmative therapy for queer and lesbian clients. We also specialize in therapy for young adults and teen therapy, helping clients build resilience and self-understanding at every stage of life. Serving San Francisco, Los Angeles, Santa Cruz, and all of California and Florida, our practice is rooted in values of inclusion, anti-racism, body positivity, and sex positivity. You deserve a space where you can feel seen, supported, and at home in your own skin. Healing and happiness are within reach.