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Can EMDR Therapy Help With Burnout?

Burnout has become so common among high achievers that many people assume it is simply part of adulthood. Feeling exhausted all the time? Normal. Struggling to concentrate? Normal. Dreading work but pushing through anyway? Also normal.

Except it is not.

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How to Combat Lawyer Burnout and Reclaim Meaning in Your Work

Lawyer burnout has a particular texture.

It's not just exhaustion. Most lawyers are accustomed to being exhausted. It's the exhaustion plus the flatness. The cases you used to care about that now feel like line items. The Sunday dread that starts Friday night. The inability to remember why you chose this.

And underneath it, often, is a specific fear: if I slow down, I'll fall behind. If I feel this, I'll lose something I can't get back.

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The Joy of Missing Out: Why Feeling Glad to Opt Out Is a Sign of Growth

We hear a lot about FOMO, the fear of missing out. It’s the anxiety that everyone else is doing something better, more exciting, more meaningful. But there’s a powerful, often overlooked opposite: JOMO, the Joy of Missing Out. And far from being a sign that you’re checked out or anti-social, JOMO is actually a sign of emotional maturity, nervous system regulation, and living in alignment with your real values.

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What Is the Soft Life and Should You Try It for Yourself?

You may have heard the term “soft life” floating around on social media or in lifestyle articles. It's often paired with images of sunlit brunches, cozy routines, or people stepping away from hustle culture due to burnout. At first glance, it can seem like just another aesthetic trend. But there's more substance to it than you might think.

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How Long Does It Take to Recover from Burnout?

If you're feeling completely drained, disconnected, and wondering how long it will take to feel like yourself again, welcome. As therapists who work with high-achievers, we've seen firsthand how devastating burnout can be to your motivation, health, relationships, and self-esteem. So how long does it take to recover from burnout?

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Everything You Should Know If You're Considering Taking Medical Leave For Burnout

Burnout can be completely devastating to your life and health. It's not just a sense of dissatisfaction and lack of motivation. Burnout can cause serious health issues, not to mention damage relationships and self esteem. If you're considering taking medical leave, you probably have some reservations. Here's our complete guide so you can make an informed choice.

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Your Vacation Won't Fix Anything: Addressing Burnout Beyond the Getaway

While a vacation might offer temporary relief, it won’t fix burnout. In fact, placing all your hopes on a getaway could leave you feeling even more depleted when you return. As therapists providing therapy for lawyers and other high-achievers, we see the pattern happen over and over again. Here's why the vacation myth persists, and what to do instead.

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