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Closure Is an Inside Job: Why You Don’t Need One More Conversation to Feel at Peace With a Relationship Ending
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Closure Is an Inside Job: Why You Don’t Need One More Conversation to Feel at Peace With a Relationship Ending

“I just want closure.”

We hear it all the time from clients in therapy after a breakup, friend estrangement, or loss of a relationship that once mattered deeply.

But most of the time, when someone says they want closure, what they really want is something else. A second chance. A satisfying explanation. The other person to finally understand. One more meaningful moment. One last spark that maybe—just maybe—could reignite the flame.

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