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Reflections on the LA Marathon from a Trauma Therapist
Los Angeles, Healthy Coping, Self Care, Trauma Laurel van der Toorn Los Angeles, Healthy Coping, Self Care, Trauma Laurel van der Toorn

Reflections on the LA Marathon from a Trauma Therapist

The taiko drums start before 7am, though it feels more like 6am thanks to Daylight Savings. Soon after the drums, amplified music kicks in. Then come the news helicopters.

Living one block off the LA Marathon race route, I look forward to it every year.

And every year, I’m overwhelmed by the emotional beauty and complexity of watching the LA Marathon experience.

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How EMDR Therapy Can Prevent PTSD (Rather Than Treat It)
EMDR, Trauma, Healthy Coping, Diagnosis Laurel van der Toorn EMDR, Trauma, Healthy Coping, Diagnosis Laurel van der Toorn

How EMDR Therapy Can Prevent PTSD (Rather Than Treat It)

Something happened. Maybe it was a car accident. A medical emergency. A sudden breakup. A traumatic birth. A natural disaster.

You keep thinking about it.

Your body feels jumpy. You’re not sleeping well. You replay certain moments. Loud sounds feel louder. Your nervous system feels… off.

And you might be wondering: Do I just wait this out? Or is there something I can do now?

There is.

EMDR therapy, when used early and strategically, can help prevent acute stress from becoming long-term PTSD.

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Does EMDR Therapy Work for Everyone?
EMDR, Trauma Laurel van der Toorn EMDR, Trauma Laurel van der Toorn

Does EMDR Therapy Work for Everyone?

EMDR therapy is often described as transformative. And for many people, it is. It’s gained a solid reputation for helping with trauma, anxiety, and distressing memories. But you might be wondering: Does EMDR therapy work for everyone?

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EMDR Therapy for Trauma: Why the Body Holds More Than the Mind
EMDR, Trauma Laurel van der Toorn EMDR, Trauma Laurel van der Toorn

EMDR Therapy for Trauma: Why the Body Holds More Than the Mind

You understand what happened. You can tell the story clearly. You know it was not your fault. You’ve read the books. You’ve done the insight work.

And yet.

You still have reactions that don’t fit the situation you’re in. Logically, you know you are safe. Your body does not.

This is one of the most confusing parts of trauma: the mind can move forward while the body remains vigilant. And this is why EMDR therapy can be so powerful.

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Am I Doing EMDR Therapy Wrong?
EMDR, Trauma Laurel van der Toorn EMDR, Trauma Laurel van der Toorn

Am I Doing EMDR Therapy Wrong?

If you’ve ever sat in an EMDR therapy session wondering, “Am I doing this right?” you’re in good company. This is one of the most common concerns people bring up, especially early on in the therapy process.

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What Else Can EMDR Therapy Be Used For Besides Trauma?
EMDR, Trauma, Anxiety, OCD, Phobias, Attachment Laurel van der Toorn EMDR, Trauma, Anxiety, OCD, Phobias, Attachment Laurel van der Toorn

What Else Can EMDR Therapy Be Used For Besides Trauma?

When most people hear about EMDR therapy, they think of trauma recovery, and for good reason. EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) was originally developed to treat PTSD and has decades of research supporting its effectiveness in healing trauma. But that’s not all EMDR can do.

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Why EMDR Therapy Works So Well for Teenagers
EMDR, Trauma, Teens Laurel van der Toorn EMDR, Trauma, Teens Laurel van der Toorn

Why EMDR Therapy Works So Well for Teenagers

We’ve seen something remarkable in our work offering therapy for teenagers: many of them respond to EMDR therapy incredibly quickly. We call clients whose brains seem to rapidly make sense of and heal from difficult experiences during EMDR therapy "super-processors." And teens seem to do this at higher rates than older therapy-goers.

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Do You Have to Process Every Trauma in Your Life with EMDR Therapy To Feel Better?
EMDR, Trauma Laurel van der Toorn EMDR, Trauma Laurel van der Toorn

Do You Have to Process Every Trauma in Your Life with EMDR Therapy To Feel Better?

Most trauma isn't simple. We often experience a series of related traumas, or experiences that are thematically linked. These themes may be loss, death, abandonment, or something more nuanced like realizing the adults taking care of you were not doing a good enough job. These themes create complex trauma networks. When considering EMDR therapy, clients often wonder if they need to process every traumatic event in their life with EMDR to feel better. The answer is simple: no, you don’t have to process everything. Here's why.

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Why Is My Trauma Showing Up Now?
Trauma Laurel van der Toorn Trauma Laurel van der Toorn

Why Is My Trauma Showing Up Now?

It's entirely possible (and common) for trauma symptoms to appear long after the event occurred. In fact, delayed PTSD is a well-documented response.

Here's why trauma can show up later, what might trigger it, and how working with a trauma therapist—especially one trained in EMDR therapy—can help you find lasting relief and healing.

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How to Identify Trauma: The Mind-Body Gap
Trauma, EMDR, Mindfulness, Self Advocacy Laurel van der Toorn Trauma, EMDR, Mindfulness, Self Advocacy Laurel van der Toorn

How to Identify Trauma: The Mind-Body Gap

Have you ever felt like there's a disconnect between what you logically know is true and what your body believes? This is a common experience for trauma survivors. Trauma is as diverse as the people who experience it, making a common definition difficult, but when there's an inconsistency between what you logically know is true and the signals your body is sending, that's a clue you've got trauma.

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Are You Managing Your Trauma Symptoms or Healing Them?
Trauma, EMDR Laurel van der Toorn Trauma, EMDR Laurel van der Toorn

Are You Managing Your Trauma Symptoms or Healing Them?

Trauma can leave a wide array of symptoms in its wake. It's very common for people who have trauma to white-knuckle it through life, thinking this is as good as it will get. But true relief can come with healing it. It's absolutely possible; we've seen it happen hundreds of times. But what does it mean to heal trauma? And how do you know which one you're doing?

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