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Anxiety, Depression, OCD Laurel van der Toorn Anxiety, Depression, OCD Laurel van der Toorn

Anxiety vs. OCD: Why It Feels Different in Your Body and Brain

Where anxiety tends to be more diffuse, ongoing, and general, OCD shows up in sudden spikes followed by compulsive behaviors or mental rituals meant to bring relief.

Let’s unpack how each condition tends to show up in the body and brain, and how understanding these patterns can lead to more effective therapy and support.

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EMDR, Trauma, Anxiety Laurel van der Toorn EMDR, Trauma, Anxiety Laurel van der Toorn

The Difference Between Feeling Calm, Numb, and Dissociated in EMDR Therapy

Clients often tell their EMDR therapist, “I felt calm during that set,” only to realize later that they were actually numb or starting to dissociate. These states can feel similar in the moment, but they affect trauma therapy very differently. Understanding the distinction helps you communicate with your EMDR therapist, stay grounded in session, and get the most benefit from EMDR therapy.

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What Else Can EMDR Therapy Be Used For Besides Trauma?

When most people hear about EMDR therapy, they think of trauma recovery, and for good reason. EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) was originally developed to treat PTSD and has decades of research supporting its effectiveness in healing trauma. But that’s not all EMDR can do.

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Anxiety, Holistic Therapy Laurel van der Toorn Anxiety, Holistic Therapy Laurel van der Toorn

Is It Anxiety or Nervous System Dysregulation?

You’re feeling on edge. Maybe your heart races for no clear reason, or you can’t concentrate no matter how much you try to “calm down.” You’ve Googled anxiety. You’ve tried meditation apps. But nothing really connects with how pervasive your unease is.

What if what you’re experiencing isn’t just anxiety, but a deeper issue rooted in your nervous system?

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Anxiety v. OCD: What’s The Difference?

It’s not uncommon to hear people mistakenly use “anxious” and “OCD” interchangeably. Maybe someone says they’re “so OCD” because they like things neat, or they describe their worries as obsessive. But while anxiety and Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) can look similar on the surface, they’re very distinct mental health conditions. They have different patterns and needs for treatment. And unfortunately, even a lot of therapists can't distinguish them unless they have specialized training.

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Anxiety, Millennials, Money and Emotions Laurel van der Toorn Anxiety, Millennials, Money and Emotions Laurel van der Toorn

Young Adult Financial Anxiety: Understanding and Overcoming It

Financial anxiety can feel overwhelming. Many millennials experience it, even when they have enough resources. It's a mix of fear and stress about money, often tied to the pressures and expectations unique to our generation. As professionals who offer therapy for millennials, we see this showing up quite a bit. Interestingly, it shows up equally across income levels.

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The Inconvenient Mental Health Benefits of Exercise for Anxiety

It's inconvenient how much exercise really does help your mental health. Why does something so effective take so much darn effort? And why is it especially hard when your mental health isn't its best? While it's not the only solution, we think exercise is an important part of your holistic wellness plan. It isn't just about breaking a sweat and releasing those feel-good endorphins. Movement is a powerful tool that can work wonders for regulating your nervous system and boosting brain function.

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Why is Anxiety So Exhausting?

Anxiety has a way of leaving us feeling mentally, emotionally, and physically spent. But why does this persistent unease take such a toll on our energy levels? Let's explore the ways anxiety saps our energy and strategies to combat its exhausting effects.

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Anxiety, Trauma Laurel van der Toorn Anxiety, Trauma Laurel van der Toorn

What's The Difference Between Trauma and Anxiety?

Anxiety and trauma are two of the biggest disruptors to our peace of mind. But what exactly distinguishes one from the other? How do we know when something is anxiety we should address with calming strategies versus trauma we should treat with trauma therapy? Let's unravel the layers of anxiety and trauma, discerning their characteristics and how they manifest in our lives.

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