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A Journey Through Trauma Therapy with Taylor Swift
There's a reason so many people love Taylor Swift. Despite her fame and wealth, her lyrics are notoriously relatable. Whether you've experienced the sting of betrayal, the ache of a breakup, or the loss of a loved one, there's a Taylor song about it. Here are some examples of different types of traumas alluded to in Taylor Swift’s lyrics.
What To Do When One of the “4 Horsemen” Appears In Your Relationship
Few things feel as stressful as conflict and tension in our closest relationships. It can feel especially threatening when you encounter one of the infamous "Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse." These four toxic behaviors can unleash chaos in your relationship if left unchecked. But don't worry! We've got actionable strategies to combat them and repair your connection.
Elevating Lesbian Mental Health: The Power of Working with a Lesbian Therapist
Mental health is personal journey. It can be even more impactful when guided by someone who understands your experiences. For lesbians, working with a lesbian therapist can be transformative. The therapeutic journey, when guided by a therapist who shares your identity, can be profound.
What to Do If Your Partner Won't Go to Couples Therapy
Couples therapy is a great tool for strengthening relationships. It can help you navigate the hardest parts of a partnership and come out stronger on the other side. But what do you do when you know it's time for therapy, but your partner won't budge? The journey to convince them can be tricky, but with a blend of patience and empathy, it's possible to get them on board.
Red Flags to Watch For In Your First EMDR Session
To ensure a successful and safe EMDR experience, it's crucial to be aware of signs it might not work. Your therapist's training and approach can significantly impact the effectiveness of the therapy. Let's explore red flags to look for to help you make informed decisions about your care.
6 Tips To Get The Most Out Of Your Teletherapy Appointments
Few of us have distinct memories of an incredible Zoom meeting. After years of video meetings being the norm, they all blur together. Therapy shouldn’t be like that. Online therapy is just as effective as in-person therapy, especially when you follow some of our tips to make it feel distinct from the rest of your day.
Debunking 9 Common Myths About EMDR Therapy
EMDR therapy is an effective approach for treating trauma and other emotional challenges. But like any therapeutic method, there are plenty of misunderstandings. The following are some common myths surrounding EMDR therapy. We'll help set the record straight and provide clarity to help you make informed decisions about your mental health.
What to Expect During Your First EMDR Therapy Sessions
EMDR is a powerful trauma therapy known for its effectiveness in helping people process upsetting memories. But EMDR can feel quite unusual, especially if you've never experienced it before. Here's what to expect in your first few EMDR sessions.
8 Reasons Couples Therapy Doesn't Work
Couples therapy is a powerful tool that can help couples strengthen their relationships. But it's not a one-size-fits-all solution. It's certainly not fool-proof. In some cases, couples may find that therapy doesn't yield the expected results. Understanding the reasons behind this can help you make the most out of your therapy experience.
Demystifying EMDR Therapy: It Doesn't Erase Memories, It Heals Them
When it comes to dealing with trauma and emotional pain, EMDR therapy is a powerful way to find healing. But there are some misunderstandings about how it works. One common misconception is that EMDR erases bad memories. We want to clear that up and explain how EMDR therapy actually works.
10 Signs You Should Start Couples Therapy Before a Crisis
Once upon a time you'd found the love of your life, and everything seemed great. Those new-relationship hormones were raging. It was hard to imagine anything would feel hard. But over time, the hormones settle and patterns start to emerge. You might still feel great love for your partner, but wish some things were different.
Podcast: How Masterminds Help High-Achieving Women Balance It All
Our clinical director is featured on the Empowered and Unapologetic podcast about the impact of mastermind groups. Learn how to create and lean into colleagues, stop thinking of others as competitors, and unleash your full potential.
What To Expect After EMDR
If you’re considering Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), it makes sense to wonder what to expect. You've probably heard great things. And the research backs this up: EMDR is effective for treating PTSD and is a potent trauma therapy. But it's also a weird modality. Side-to-side stimulation helps process trauma? What the heck should you expect? Here’s what to expect after an EMDR session.
Balancing Commitment, Friendship, and Passion: A Guide for Couples
A long term relationship should have three elements: commitment, friendship, and passion. When these elements are in equilibrium, relationships thrive. But when they're not, people feel unsatisfied and anxious. Let's explore what each part means, the challenges that arise when they go missing, and how couples therapy can help restore balance.
Navigating Upsetting Global News: Self-Care Strategies
The research is clear: hearing about upsetting things can trigger vicarious trauma. The effects of vicarious trauma can be especially acute during times of disaster or conflict. While it's admirable to be informed and passionate about issues that matter to you, self-compassion is also vital.
Therapeutic Book Review: Fair Play by Eve Rodsky
Eve Rodsky's "Fair Play" is a guide for changing the way we handle domestic and emotional labor. While it excels in providing structure and clarity, there is room for improvement in handling conflicts and disagreements. The language of the book also fails to be inclusive of LGBT and same-sex couples.
Self-Care For Bipolar 2: How To Nurture Yourself Through Ups & Downs
Self-care isn't a one-size-fits-all practice. It's not even a one-size-fits-you practice. This is especially true for people with cyclical mood disorders like bipolar 2. Just as the seasons change, so do our external and internal landscapes. The way we care for ourselves should adapt accordingly.
Navigating Virtual Codependency: Balancing Online and Offline Love
The way we connect with our partners has changed drastically with technology. While technology has enriched our lives in many ways, it has also given rise to virtual codependency. Virtual codependency happens when a couple becomes too intertwined with their phones and social media.
10 Reasons Why EMDR Trauma Therapy Doesn't Work
EMDR is a hot treatment right now. Many people have cited it as a game-changer for their mental health. But like any therapeutic method, its effectiveness can vary from person to person. If you've tried EMDR therapy without experiencing the expected results, you're not alone. Here are some of the most common reasons people don’t get results from EMDR and what to do about them.
Choosing the Right Approach: Gottman Method Couples Therapy, EFT, and Imago Therapy
When couples seek therapy, they have various approaches to choose from. But how do you know which one to choose? Without special training in therapy, it can feel overwhelming. It's okay if you don't know where to start. Three popular approaches are Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and Imago Couples Therapy. Let's explore the differences between these approaches and how they can help couples.
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