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How Do I Know If I Have Trauma or PTSD?
Wondering if it's PTSD? How acute stress, PTSD, C-PTSD, and anxiety differ, what timing tells you, and when to talk to a trauma therapist.
Why Some People Bounce Back From Trauma Faster Than Others
Have you ever noticed how some people can seem to simply shake off bad experiences, while others take a bit longer? This quick recovery from tough times is called resilience. It's almost like having a hidden superpower that helps us heal from life's challenges. But what really is resilience, and how can you develop more of it?
EMDR: How to Answer “What Do You Notice?”
If you've ever been in an EMDR therapy session, you might be familiar with the moment when your therapist asks, "What do you notice?" It's a simple question, yet it's not always obvious how to answer. It can sometimes leave us feeling uncertain about how to respond. Let's explore why your therapist asks this question and how to approach it.
Transform Your Life Through 6 Essential Boundaries
Our lives require a delicate balance of self-care and commitment to others. Most of us err on the side of overcommitting to things and building resentment when we have little time or energy for ourselves. The results can be disastrous: conflict, exhaustion, burnout, and health problems. Here are six essential boundaries you can set to build better balance.
What to Do After an EMDR Session (And What to Avoid)
After an EMDR therapy session, it's important to engage in activities to support your processing and integration of the work you did. You worked hard during the session and we want you to get the most out of it. Here are things you can do after an EMDR therapy session to enhance the effects, as well as things you should avoid that could interfere with your processing.
Webinar: EMDR 101
Curious about EMDR therapy and how it can help you heal your trauma? Watch our free webinar to learn more and decide if this powerful therapy is right for you.
6 Reasons Teens Seek Support and How Therapy Can Help
Everyone goes through adolescence, but not everyone sails through smoothly. Teenagers often find themselves facing challenges that can be overwhelming. For those of us who have already been through it, it can be difficult to recall how hard it actually was. Here are the six most common reasons teenagers seek therapy and how therapy can change teens’ life for the better.
Podcast: What Straight Couples Can Learn From LGBT Couples
Our clinical director is featured on the Empowered Relationship podcast with Dr. Jessica Higgins. She reviews what LGBT couples can teach straight couples and what to look for in a great LGBT couples therapist.
Can Couples Therapy Make Things Worse?
Couples therapy can be a pivotal intervention for relationships facing challenges. But it's not without its potential pitfalls. One common concern is whether couples therapy can make things worse. And yes, sometimes it can make things worse. Let's explore how and why that might happen and what to do about it.
Dealing With Difficult People: The Gray Rock Technique
Dealing with difficult people is exhausting. You find yourself dreading interactions, uncertain how to avoid the drama. That's where the Gray Rock Technique comes in. It's a powerful tool to maintain your peace of mind when dealing with challenging people.
What To Do If Your Therapist Talks About Themselves A Lot
Having a therapist that talks about themselves a lot can be confusing. For some it's uncomfortable, for others helpful. Therapy should be your time and space to explore what's going on with you. Here's information to help you figure out what amount of sharing is helpful to you, and when it's cause for concern.
The 6 Most Common Diagnoses and a Whole-Person Way to Heal
If you’ve received a diagnosis like anxiety, depression, or PTSD, we want to explore, inform, and offer hope for your struggles. Let’s learn about the most common diagnoses from the last few years and how holistic therapy can help.
Sex After Sexual Trauma: How To Be A Good Lover To A Survivor
When and how to approach sex with someone who has been assaulted can be tricky business. Every experience is different, and no amount of research or good intention can replace healthy communication with your partner. Here's what you should know about how to be a great partner, spouse, lover, or friend-with-benefits to someone who has been sexually assaulted or raped.
The Real Reason Los Angeles Traffic Is So Frustrating
There's a shared sentiment about traffic among Angelenos and tourists alike. It grinds gears and triggers eye rolls. We all know it's bad. But why does sitting in LA traffic make even the most patient of us so irritable? Let's cut the fluff and dive into the real reason traffic is the worst.
Changing Your Victim Mindset: Examples & Where It Comes From
Picture this: you wake up one morning, and everything is going wrong. Your coffee machine breaks, you're running late for work, and you hit every red light on your way. It's easy to fall into thinking, "Why does this always happen to me?" It's a natural response. But for those with a victim mentality, this mindset extends beyond a bad morning. It becomes a way of life.
What We Can Learn From Michelle Obama’s Experience In Couples Therapy
Couples often come to therapy at a point of crisis or significant life changes. The hope is for a sudden, dramatic turnaround in the relationship. And it's totally possible to change. We've seen it happen. But a roadblock arises when someone expects their partner to be the sole catalyst for change. Even Michelle Obama experienced this. Let's explore why this can be problematic and why a different approach is key in couples therapy.
When Couples Therapy Is A Bad Idea
Couples therapy can be a powerful resource for improving relationships. But there are situations in which couples therapy may not be advisable or effective. Here are the most common reasons couples therapy might be a bad idea.
Social Justice: Sustainable Activism and Preventing Vicarious Trauma
In a world where hashtags fuel movements and social platforms serve as soapboxes, activism has evolved. From the radical to the domestic, engaging in causes we are passionate about is empowering. But it can come with a hidden cost: vicarious trauma and compassion fatigue. Let's explore impactful ways to make a difference while safeguarding your mental health.
Reversing Course on Burnout for Lawyers
Lawyer burnout builds in stages. Learn the early signs, what helps, and the extra load women in law carry, from therapists who work with lawyers.
15 Things You Should Never Say to Someone With Anxiety
Dealing with anxiety can be tough, not only for the person going through it but also for those around them. Sometimes, even with the best intentions, we might say things that unintentionally make anxiety worse. Here are ten things you should avoid saying to someone with anxiety and what to say instead.
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