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Are You Managing Your Trauma Symptoms or Healing Them?
Trauma can leave a wide array of symptoms in its wake. It's very common for people who have trauma to white-knuckle it through life, thinking this is as good as it will get. But true relief can come with healing it. It's absolutely possible; we've seen it happen hundreds of times. But what does it mean to heal trauma? And how do you know which one you're doing?
When is it Okay to Trauma Dump? A Trauma Therapist Explains…
Let's explore the dangers of trauma dumping in certain situations and how to handle these awkward conversations. We'll also talk about how sharing is different in trauma therapy and how to approach telling your story.
EMDR Floatbacks: Why Your “Biggest” Trauma May Not Be Where You Start
Let's explore why your biggest trauma may not be your EMDR target and how floatbacks play a crucial role in unraveling the complex web of trauma memories.
When Is the Right Time to Start EMDR Therapy?
There's no single right time to start EMDR. When starting early helps, when to wait, how long EMDR usually takes, and whether you must process every trauma.
PTSD After a Car Accident: How EMDR Can Get You On The Road To Recovery
A car accident can leave you feeling emotionally stranded on the side of the road. You might find yourself reliving the accident through flashbacks, nightmares, or intrusive thoughts. A car accident can disrupt your sense of safety and well-being, impacting various aspects of your life. It can be difficult to get back behind the wheel. But there is hope for healing, and EMDR therapy offers a proven path forward.
What Not To Say To Someone Who Has Sexual Trauma
There are many things you shouldn't say to someone who has been the victim of a sexual crime. After experiencing the ultimate loss of power and autonomy, too many people are accused of lying or exaggerating. Here are things you should never say to a survivor of sexual assault and what to say instead.
How Do I Know If I Have Trauma or PTSD?
Wondering if it's PTSD? How acute stress, PTSD, C-PTSD, and anxiety differ, what timing tells you, and when to talk to a trauma therapist.
Why Some People Bounce Back From Trauma Faster Than Others
Have you ever noticed how some people can seem to simply shake off bad experiences, while others take a bit longer? This quick recovery from tough times is called resilience. It's almost like having a hidden superpower that helps us heal from life's challenges. But what really is resilience, and how can you develop more of it?
Sex After Sexual Trauma: How To Be A Good Lover To A Survivor
When and how to approach sex with someone who has been assaulted can be tricky business. Every experience is different, and no amount of research or good intention can replace healthy communication with your partner. Here's what you should know about how to be a great partner, spouse, lover, or friend-with-benefits to someone who has been sexually assaulted or raped.
Why You Can't Find Words to Talk About Your Trauma
Can't find the words to talk about your trauma? Here's what trauma does to the brain's language centers, and what can help you find them.
Coping with Sorority Rejection Trauma
Receiving a sorority rejection can be a distressing experience for anyone. It's natural to seek a sense of identity and belonging in a community, making this rejection particularly painful. In fact, our therapists believe such a rejection is traumatic. We've heard many stories from successful, well-liked women about the deep negative impact a sorority rejection had.
How EMDR Can Help You Heal From Sexual Trauma
Sexual assault can shatter your sense of safety, leaving you with a tangle of emotions. You might feel fear, anger, shame, and even guilt. You might find yourself experiencing flashbacks, nightmares, or struggling with trust and intimacy. You might feel like part of you shut down or got blocked off. These reactions are normal responses to a traumatic event. EMDR therapy offers a path towards healing from sexual trauma.
A Journey Through Trauma Therapy with Taylor Swift
There's a reason so many people love Taylor Swift. Despite her fame and wealth, her lyrics are notoriously relatable. Whether you've experienced the sting of betrayal, the ache of a breakup, or the loss of a loved one, there's a Taylor song about it. Here are some examples of different types of traumas alluded to in Taylor Swift’s lyrics.
What to Expect After EMDR: After Effects, Side Effects, and Post-Session Symptoms
If you’re considering Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), it makes sense to wonder what to expect. You've probably heard great things. And the research backs this up: EMDR is effective for treating PTSD and is a potent trauma therapy. But it's also a weird modality. Side-to-side stimulation helps process trauma? What the heck should you expect? Here’s what to expect after an EMDR session.
What to Do When EMDR Makes Things Worse
EMDR is a hot treatment right now. Many people have cited it as a game-changer for their mental health. But like any therapeutic method, its effectiveness can vary from person to person. If you've tried EMDR therapy without experiencing the expected results, you're not alone. Here are some of the most common reasons people don’t get results from EMDR and what to do about them.
Attachment and Emotional Intimacy: Understanding Trauma Dumping
There's a fine line between opening up and oversharing. We've all been in an awkward situation with that, right? Those moments when you're just getting to know someone, and suddenly they unleash their deepest traumas on you. It's like emotional TMI, and it's called "trauma dumping."
What Is EMDR and How Does It Work?
EMDR always has eight phases, and it always involves bilateral stimulation. But there are multiple types of bilateral stimulation that work for this effective trauma therapy. Here are the four main types and what they look like.
What is Trauma Therapy and How Does it Work?
Trauma therapy aims to help relieve the suffering of individuals who have experienced trauma. Trauma can encompass a wide range of experiences, from abuse or neglect to witnessing or experiencing natural disasters, as well as smaller experiences that build up over time. Trauma therapy can help individuals work through these symptoms and embark on a path of healing
Therapist Advice: What To Do When You're Freaking Out
Usually, we’re freaked out about something that’s not actually happening in that moment. Here's an exercise to help you get grounded in the moment.
Therapists Discuss: Healing Relationship Patterns
Therapist interview with Hadley Davis: Attachment is how you set up boundaries - or don’t, how you show love - or don’t. It’s how you relate to other people in your life.
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